Where it all began

It was still dark out at 7:00 a.m.

…when I dropped my two sons off at their school bus stop. As I watched the bus pull away, the sun just then breaking on the horizon, a text arrived from my eldest, informing me that “he” was actually a “she.” In a matter of minutes, I’d gone from believing that I had two sons, to realizing that I had a son and a daughter.

I’d always been close with my kids, and I was no stranger to LGBTQIA+ issues, but suddenly I had questions.

A lot of questions.

How do I guide my transgender daughter through sometimes scary and always uncharted territory?

How can I help her be her most powerful self?

How was I going to navigate extended family dynamics?

What did I need to understand socially, medically, legally about the transition process?

And how was I to manage all that needed managing while holding a loving relationship with my daughter as the number one priority?

With real delight, I discovered that I didn’t need to address that last question directly.

I found that allyship with my trans daughter created connection and an openness that blossomed on its own, and our relationship grew and deepened in ways I couldn’t have predicted.

I’ve coached people through major life decisions, periods of self-doubt, relationship upheaval, and personal transformations. Please feel free to check out my other website, nurturelifecoaching.com to learn more about coaching in these areas. No matter the challenge, the goal is always for the client to come out on the other side of their struggles standing taller, understanding themselves better, and carrying their best selves forward into the world. 

 This is what I do.

Whatever emotions or challenges may be present for you, my work is to help comb through them all in order for you to achieve your stated goals. In our work together I will always see your best intentions as a person and as a parent as you move toward a brighter future for yourself, your transgender child, and your family as a whole. I’m here to help, and I can’t wait to see what we can accomplish together.